Unconditional Love.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Dearest Dr Chopra,
Recently my life has changed as I stepped onto the path of spirituality. I started meditating, completed four 21-meditation challenges. The most precious and greatest thing I accomplished during your meditations was becoming aware that I am not my body nor my mind. I think it is the most valuable thing to discover about ourselves, because after that we become silent observers. Getting to the point, I wanted to ask you about love relationships. I am a young independent woman, in love for many years with the man who was out of reach for a long time because of his status and age difference. We have a very deep connection and I believe, he is my soul mate. Recently he has started a new life as a single person, which I never thought would be possible for him, because he was in a long term relationship with a very complicated background. For some time now, during my spiritual evolution I feel an amazing bond with him. I have never felt it before. I love him unconditionally, despite everything I’ve been through and I just want him to be happy. Can this feeling come from ego? Is it possible?
Please Dr. Deepak, any response from you would mean so much for me.
Response:
From what you have relayed in your letter, it doesn’t sound like your love is ego-based, it sounds truly unconditional. The true self is complete and content within itself as life is. It accepts the world and loves people unconditionally. The ego, or the apparently separate self, is always trying to change things by acquiring or pushing things away. It accepts situations or loves people based on conditions or judgments.
Unconditional Love.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Dear Dr. Deepak, I have read some of your stuff and i think you write very well. I want to ask you does love at first sight happen? And is there such a thing as unconditional love? I don't think I could love a man unconditionally. i mean if i have a husband and he cheats on me i would probably want a divorce. i think only parental love for a child can be truly unconditional. But I want to know your views about whether unconditional love can exist at all in a romantic relationship. Does true love exist at all and what is it exactly? the way true love is described in fairy tales, is it true at a symbolic, subconscious level? If you cud give your interpretation of fairy tales and maybe write a book about it, I would really love to read it. Thanks.
Response:
Unconditional love is a state of giving and secure awareness that once attained applies to all loving relationships, not just maternal ones. Years ago I wrote an entire book entitled Unconditional Love. Because it is an internal state of consciousness, the love that is expressed is not conditional upon the circumstances and events of the other person. It is based on a recognition of the absolute connection and identity of the other’s essence with your own Being. Behavior has not bearing on that experience.
Love,
Deepak
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