Stuck in Pattern.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
It seems I am stuck with a pattern in relationships. I don’t look around for relationships, I am happy with myself … the person would walk into my life, sweep me off the floor, love me, care for me so much that I become very attached and then he would leave me saying that he cannot be with me as his parents/society want him to marry someone else. It’s happened three times. It hurts. I am unable to figure out what is wrong with me that I keep getting into the same pattern.
Response:
Don’t assume something is fundamentally wrong with you. Patterns are just temporary conditions that we have adopted through lack of self-awareness. Meditation, reading inspiring books and journaling will be helpful for you in developing a greater self-awareness. Then begin to assert more discrimination in the early stages of the relationship to determine if it has a future, according to the traditional values of your society. Don’t allow yourself to get deeply involved in the relationship if there really isn’t much of a chance that there is a long term future.
Love,
Deepak
