Separated Partners.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Deepak, My partner, and I have separated. I am still very much in love, and I believe he has feelings for me as well, although I’m not certain to what extent. In the last few months, the distance between us grew and we lost appreciation for each other and did not honor our love as before. I have been on a spiritual path for quite some time, and I see now he is also opening to unity consciousness, practicing yoga and meditation, reading and such. I know he is not yet ready to entertain a reconciliation, but I remain open and hopeful this will come. Is there anything I can do to help with the process? Should I actively reach out to him and keep lines of communication open or let him explore this new reality on his own? I have suggested counseling, but he is not ready for that. I know my life was more fulfilled with him and would like to continue to grow this relationship, especially now that he is more focused on his spiritual journey.
Response:
It’s natural to want to resume a relationship that you miss. But it is important to understand why you separated and to make sure you have understood and experienced what you need from this time apart before you can think of getting back together without running into the same problems. If he isn’t open to reconciliation yet, you need to honor that and not try to force the issue. Your focus should be on using this time to work on what you need to address in yourself, so that you can move forward in your life when the time is right.
Love,
Deepak
