Outgrowing Relationships.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
When one begins an awakening within and one begins to live in a different way, relationships becomes affected. Some takes this as a positive thing others see it negative. What advice could you offer to ease on the transformation of relationships or ending of some of them but looking for attaining the best for all at the same time?
Response:
You are right that spiritual evolution will affect all aspects of our life, including relationships. Sometimes that means the relationship deepens and expands into new areas, and sometimes it means a phase of development is finished and it is time to move forward independently.
If a relationship ends because the two are not able to offer what the other needs to grow, then that means both are better off if they are free to pursue their next stage of growth. It is natural to feel some sadness and grieve the loss, but the love that was shared should be acknowledged and appreciated as well. Even if a relationship does not last a lifetime, that does not mean the love it generated should be undervalued or diminished. It was perfect and right for the time and that is all you can ask of any relationship, whether it is for 50 days or 50 years.
Love,
Deepak
