December 21, 2011

Loving the Unavailable Lover.

Quote.

When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.

Question:
How do I let go of the love I feel for someone who is unavailable? How do I stop hoping for something more from this person when they aren't able to give it?
 

Response:

You don’t expect a co-worker to be able to give you a yacht, or sing an aria from a Verdi opera. When you aren’t blinded by your emotional needs, you match your hopes and expectations realistically from the people around you. You love someone who is not available, and the real difficulty is that you cannot let go of your hope that he will, or could be available perhaps if he loved you more or if fate weren’t set against you.
The path to healing this situation is understanding the emotions and beliefs you are holding about yourself that are make you hold on to this unrealistic and painful expectation. Once you have healed the mistaken belief, you can let go of the hurtful hoping but keep the love.
Love,
Deepak
 

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  2. marry345

    My boyfriend broke up with me after years of dating. Things were relatively Ok, but for the past 6 months or so, he’d been acting kind of snippy and oddly sarcastic (I say “oddly” because we’re both kind of sarcastic people. It was just different, like bitter sarcasm). Suddenly he broke up with me. I need to get him back. My friend adviced me using love spell. I entered the website http://magical-rituals.com and order the most powerful love spell. And I don’t regretted. My lover back to me.

  3. marry345

    My boyfriend broke up with me after years of dating. Things were relatively Ok, but for the past 6 months or so, he’d been acting kind of snippy and oddly sarcastic (I say “oddly” because we’re both kind of sarcastic people. It was just different, like bitter sarcasm). Suddenly he broke up with me. I need to get him back. My friend adviced me using love spell. I entered the website http://magical-rituals.com and order the most powerful love spell. And I don’t regretted. My lover back to me.

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