Love Frustration.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Its a very important question as far as my life is concerned. I love a friend of mine deeply truly from my inner consciousness. He is bound by his parents. His parents wish for him to have some different things apart from me.
It was painful to take up this situation, but I have no choice except to accept it.
still I think only of that person. He is just rooted so deeply that I cannot think of eliminating or detaching him from me.
I really don’t know about his intentions.
What I am feeling is that I have nothing to achieve, nothing to lose, nothing to gain. I never think of suicidal tendencies but I have literally nothing to do.
Though I am not well settled in a career, I am creative, with a perfect blend of modern & traditional values. & sensitive & caring & loving & deep feeling inside to help others to the extent of sacrificing my life. This is my true nature.
I am not knowing how to convince that person that I am the best suit for him.
deep within my inner voice says that nobody can be as good & understanding like me as far as his wife is concerned. I am deeply worried for my true best friend.
Every day I am praying, praying & only praying, as I feel as a human I can do only my part & miracles in life can happen only through gods help.
But surely Deepakji I feel if I can get my friends company, we can go to heights & reach a remarkable stage in life, what u call as serving the humanity can be our forefront criteria.
But being single I feel I cannot live nor can I think of any other person in my life.
What should I do?
Response:
Your sincerity and purity of heart shines through your letter. And your heart has clearly settled on this young man. What is not clear from your letter is whether he shares your feelings. You said you don’t know what his intentions are for you, but practically speaking, I think that is the most important thing for you to find out. If he loves you and wants to be with you, then he can work on getting his parents to come around. Right now you understand that his parents don’t approve, and you say that you have no choice but to accept that, yet you obviously haven’t come to terms with it. So talk to him directly and find out what’s in his heart. If he doesn’t want to be with you and is only using the excuse of his parent’s disapproval to break it off, then you need to know that. If he is indecisive and confused and doesn’t know what he wants and is passively deferring to his parents, then you ought to know that as well. But if he knows in his heart that he loves you, then he can be encouraged to stand up for his life and choices to his parents so that you two can be together.
Love,
Deepak
