Losing One’s Self.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Dear Deepak I used to be a person full of life, dreams and freedom. In the past I considered myself the source of positivity but after being with an emotional abuser for 2 years I became empty, powerless, Hateful to who I am and dead on the inside. I was convinced by him that I was wrong and that I should be ashamed of myself for simply doing things anyone else would do, normal things like the way I talk and the way I blink. Now I hate myself, it’s been 3 years since we broke up. How can I come back to life, get my will power back and believe in myself. Happiness seems like something far from me and I feel like I kissed my life goodbye for love in return.
Response:
The first thing to do is stop blaming someone else for how you feel about yourself. Something in you believes you should feel ashamed. That self-belief is what you need to change. If you can build a self-image based on your spiritual self that is infinite, immortal, loving, compassionate and wise, then you will have the happy life you desire, but more importantly, it will be a happiness that cannot be taken away by others opinions or actions.
Love,
Deepak
