When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Dear Deepak I used to be a person full of life, dreams and freedom. In the past I considered myself the source of positivity but after being with an emotional abuser for 2 years I became empty, powerless, Hateful to who I am and dead on the inside. I was convinced by him that I was wrong and that I should be ashamed of myself for simply doing things anyone else would do, normal things like the way I talk and the way I blink. Now I hate myself, it’s been 3 years since we broke up. How can I come back to life, get my will power back and believe in myself. Happiness seems like something far from me and I feel like I kissed my life goodbye for love in return.
The first thing to do is stop blaming someone else for how you feel about yourself. Something in you believes you should feel ashamed. That self-belief is what you need to change. If you can build a self-image based on your spiritual self that is infinite, immortal, loving, compassionate and wise, then you will have the happy life you desire, but more importantly, it will be a happiness that cannot be taken away by others opinions or actions.