Losing One`s Self.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Dear Deepak I used to be a person full of life, dreams and freedom. In the past I considered myself the source of positivity but after being with an emotional abuser for 2 years I became empty, powerless, hateful to who I am and dead on the inside. I was convinced by him that I was wrong and that I should be ashamed of myself for simply doing things anyone else would do, normal things like the way I talk and the way I blink. Now I hate myself, it's been 3 years since we broke up. How can I come back to life, get my will power back and believe in myself. Happiness seems like something far from me and I feel like I kissed my life goodbye for love in return.
Response:
The first thing to do is stop blaming someone else for how you feel about yourself. What did you already believe about yourself that allowed him to convince you that you were wrong and should be ashamed of yourself? That self-belief is what you need to change. If you can build a self-image based on your spiritual self that is infinite, immortal, loving, compassionate and wise, then you will have the happy life you desire, but more importantly, it will be a happiness that cannot be taken away by others opinions or actions.
Love,
Deepak
Cuando tengas sentimientos de odio hacia tu persona date cuenta que estas dejando entrar al ego por medio de tus procesos mentales y ese no eres tu,por que tu eres amor en potencia.Desecha esa idea como se cambia de canal el televisor y no la acojas.Bendiciones
Leer todos los dias "El Lenguaje del Adios" Melodie Beattie. Dios te bendiga!
i have been emotionally abused four times over by four different men. have gone through slow fragmentation and complete breakdown n severe depression. connecting with god and thereby with my real inner self is very very slowly helping me inch back from suicidal thoughts. we ourselves trust the wrong people who are incapable of loving us back, appreciating positivity. letting go n detachment is the hardest thing. changing your source of joy from a human being to activities is very difficult to practice. but it is POSSIBLE. i am trying so hard to let go of the "why me" and just "be me". start very small...take baby steps..trust in God...believe in yourself...remind yourself of your core strengths...practise forgiveness and tolerance of people who are unable or cannot understand love. read a lot...define your own spirituality and develop by slow but regular practise of exercise n meditation everyday, your own power. be a yoddha...don`t be afraid of falling down...push yourself little by little...its tough, but soon you will radiate your inner charm n positivity. thank you for reading.