Happiness Caused by Others.

If everything is right about any dependence from the others. We haven`t self-sufficiency as a machine can work well just being feed by its source of energy.It`s a `consolation` to our souls not to need this way.

"Be happy and let others be happy." The word happiness is misconstrued in this world. Happiness is not mere satiation of the ego self. We descend to the Earth with this gift of God named "Happiness", and cherish it every moment at out own terms from cradle to grave. We make others fall in line just to satisfy our ego, and thus we feel as paramounts of greatness. This has been the dominant thought of most of individuals. Eg: Leaders believe that their followers should toe their line without murmur and some become dictators in due course. Parents want that their children to build their lives and carreers to appease the parents. We all want others to dance to our tunes to make us dance. In the process we only put a lock on the individuality of others. But happiness achieved at the expense of others enslaves us forever, and we become like a physically challenged person, who can only walk on the crutches of others yielding to our desires. We do not know that we are well springs of happiness that never dries up and the tranquil pleasure is ever lasting. This real happiness is derived from the happiness of one and all which is only possible when individuals live their lives as per their free will, and we try to align ourselves with the happiness of others without trampling upon our own individuality. Happiness is not so small to rest on the cradle of compliments for happiness than to make others fly on the wings of compliments.

Nope! Change begins with me. Everyone else is my teacher!