Forgiving Bad Mother.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Me and My Mother have a very bad relationship, she is constantly judging and criticizing me for everything I do, the way I raise my kids, my businesses, my friends, my husband, she has embarrassed me in front of people, telling them my secrets and making me look really bad, I have decided to never talk to her again, but I can’t forgive her and I am holding lots of anger towards her, I don’t feel like this with anyone else in this world. We are supposed to love our mothers but she is a bad Mother, jealous, envious, and hurtful. I don’t know what to do.
Response:
I understand you feel hurt, angry and guilty. But you don’t need to make any permanent decisions about whether you will ever talk to her again for the rest of your life. And don’t feel you need to rush into forgiveness before you are really there. For now it is enough to give yourself space from her to regain your calm and composure. When you feel more settled, and you feel ready, you can tell you mother that even if she can’t stop thinking in a critical and judgmental way, you expect her to stop speaking her judgments and criticisms. If she can learn to do that, then you could offer her a chance to begin rebuilding a relationship based on mutual respect, honor and love. If she says she can’t or won’t, then you need to assess whether you are strong enough to ignore her destructive behavior, or if you need to still give it more time.
Love,
Deepak
My love toward my husband hurts, since the day I took the risk and confronted one of his mistress, life was unbearable and it was clear he loves her more than me because he totally changed, and fought with me for confronting her instead of apologizing to me, he left the house for two weeks, froze my account and even served me with a divorce papers through his lawyer. I didn’t know it will get to that, I was disappointed and lost hope on trust, I thought I could have let them be, so I can save my marriage, I was at the verge of losing everything including our house. I needed to do something because I was almost running crazy, no chance to chill, I had only one option to find instant solution before it all disappears. I searched everywhere I could until I met Dr. Ogudugu on the internet with this email: (GREATOGUDUGU@GMAIL.COM), people really talked good about him and I was bold to ask him for one. Well, am glad he did at the end my husband came back on his knees, after the spell, begging for forgiveness. From what I have studied lately, my husband has indeed changed and become lovely. We never mentioned or even thought about divorcing again. Am so grateful for Dr. Ogudugu’s help.
My love toward my husband hurts, since the day I took the risk and confronted one of his mistress, life was unbearable and it was clear he loves her more than me because he totally changed, and fought with me for confronting her instead of apologizing to me, he left the house for two weeks, froze my account and even served me with a divorce papers through his lawyer. I didn’t know it will get to that, I was disappointed and lost hope on trust, I thought I could have let them be, so I can save my marriage, I was at the verge of losing everything including our house. I needed to do something because I was almost running crazy, no chance to chill, I had only one option to find instant solution before it all disappears. I searched everywhere I could until I met Dr. Ogudugu on the internet with this email: (GREATOGUDUGU@GMAIL.COM), people really talked good about him and I was bold to ask him for one. Well, am glad he did at the end my husband came back on his knees, after the spell, begging for forgiveness. From what I have studied lately, my husband has indeed changed and become lovely. We never mentioned or even thought about divorcing again. Am so grateful for Dr. Ogudugu’s help.
My love toward my husband hurts, since the day I took the risk and confronted one of his mistress, life was unbearable and it was clear he loves her more than me because he totally changed, and fought with me for confronting her instead of apologizing to me, he left the house for two weeks, froze my account and even served me with a divorce papers through his lawyer. I didn’t know it will get to that, I was disappointed and lost hope on trust, I thought I could have let them be, so I can save my marriage, I was at the verge of losing everything including our house. I needed to do something because I was almost running crazy, no chance to chill, I had only one option to find instant solution before it all disappears. I searched everywhere I could until I met Dr. Ogudugu on the internet with this email: (GREATOGUDUGU@GMAIL.COM), people really talked good about him and I was bold to ask him for one. Well, am glad he did at the end my husband came back on his knees, after the spell, begging for forgiveness. From what I have studied lately, my husband has indeed changed and become lovely. We never mentioned or even thought about divorcing again. Am so grateful for Dr. Ogudugu’s help.