March 6, 2012

Emotional Separation from Mother.


When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.


I have a very difficult relationship w/ my mother and uncle. I love them even w/ all the problems that they may have. I accept their problems, their depression. They have very difficult time building relationships, accepting the "other" as is. So, long story short , they cut me out of their lives. They prefer a life alone and away of the joy of their grandkids and building a future together. I stopped fighting back( and it hurts me that the only family that I ( and they )have cut us out). I send them my prayers and love. I am still concerned about them and their health. How should we deal w/ people that makes us suffer, when we still have so much to love and create?


You can continue to love them, but if they don’t want to spend time with you, then love them from afar. Let them know that you are always ready to welcome them back in your life if they should change their mind, but don’t feel like a victim and think that this means you can’t have a full life of love through your children, your spouse, his family, and your friends. There are many people around you who will appreciate the love and kindness you have to offer, don’t let your mother and uncle’s decision to be isolated lead you to think that you have limited options to express your feelings.


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  1. Kim

    How to you become aware of your consciousness without putting up walls to keep negative people out?

  2. rottenEgg

    Accepting others is difficult for me, especially when in their difference, they seem indifferent to me, or to reject me. It took me awhile to realize that people (friends, family, even children) have a destiny of their own, independently of me. But my mother... that would be particularly tough for me to accept. Well, not quite, as in a way, my mother is also turning away from me in that she is very old now... At this point, my love for her has everything to do with me and I have come to love the tender love that makes a woman a mother. This tender love is mine as well, to live, to give and to share.

  3. Valery

    Infinity is the measure of Love. There is no period of time in the infinite manifestation of Love. There is no decay or decline in the ceaseless flowing of Love. Essence of Love is permanent. Our dream change but Love cannot be deformed, perish or fail. All is well. vibration of Love pass through all barriers, Love is the wisdom that knows each one purpose. It is Love embracing you and your mother and the whole one family of this planet.

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