Distrust and Anxiety.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
I work in a multinational company. My issue is that though I am well placed, having almost all that a normal person could aspire for, I am not happy, I always have a sense of a feeling that all this is very transient and as a result I’m in perpetual anxiety not knowing about what.
I also tend to disbelief people (I don’t take anyone at their face value) and I’m always trying to find meaning in between the lines. I’ve tried to consciously stop many times, but have not been successful. Help!
Answer:
From your description it sounds like you are distrustful of others and suspicious of their motives. There is nothing in your letter that reveals what in your past is behind this. I would recommend that you see a therapist to help you discover the underlying issue behind this so you can work on helping the emotional hurt behind your distrust. An important part of the healing will also be realizing your true nature through meditation as well. Knowing your unchanging essence that lies outside your thoughts, anxieties and doubts will give you the basis for moving forward after your healing so that you can live free from anxiety. This will allow you to base your trust on your inner core of being.
Love,
Deepak
more than trust i feel its only because u think deeper so what you hear doesnt satisfy you - or you try to look beyond face value..most of the time it is true..coz nowadays people dont mean what they say..
I think that it takes much time to trust other people, I trust my instincts. I think there usually is a hidden motive.
This is not personal advice. I do not know you. I will explain some information you may want to read up on. Separation anxiety. This happens when a child loses a loved on or did not have a stable childhood. Instead of believing what is told to them they have to read between the lines. As we become older we continue this pattern. Sometimes we need to read between the lines and sometimes we don`t. Learning the difference is crucial to having a healthy trusting relationship. It is not easy to change this pattern so read up on this topic and consider if you need to take farther steps to become happy and less anxious.