What to do after you’ve done everything.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
I’m a 35 year old woman who was briefly married to someone who was both physically and mentally abusive. I also grew up in an abusive home where there were interventions by police and child services, but no real help given to me. My years before age 18 were a nightmare. Since 18 and especially since my divorce, I’ve had extensive counseling and made good progress. I’m considered attractive and make a good salary as a professional but I’m finding it very hard to meet someone despite trying singles’ events, online dating, etc. I have been trying to stay positive that I will meet someone and have the children I’ve dreamed of, but sometimes I feel sheer grief at being alone at my age, having spent most of my life since 18, alone. I also feel panic at the thought that my window of opportunity to have children is slowly but surely closing. My biological clock is ticking loudly. I do affirmations every day, but feelings of grief and fear still hit me during the week. I feel like I’ve been “left behind.” What can I do to attract a positive, healthy relationship? It often feels like life has been unfairly cruel to me. I’m really struggling with this.
Part 2
I just sent you an email but wanted to mention everything I’ve been trying for the past 3 years to help my situation: regular meditation during the week, affirmations, visualization, energy healing, hypnotherapy, journaling, reading your books and other spiritual/self-help books on a regular basis, and praying every day. I do yoga about once a week and try to spend time in nature. I also exercise 4-5 times a week and I’m always out and about visiting friends, going to social events, etc.
Nothing has helped me in my search for a life partner. I even tried doing nothing for almost a year, (letting go) and… nothing happened. Even more discouraging, I have no children and my marriage was short, yet I have friends who left long-term marriages with kids and they’ve found serious relationships while I’m still alone. Is this an energy block? What can I do? People tell me I’m a beautiful, amazing person but I still can’t find a life partner. It makes no sense to me.
Response:
No one can say you haven’t tried your best to find a partner. You have been doing all the right things for a long enough time, so what I would suggest is a shift in your starting premise. Namely instead of assuming that your current life is incomplete without a partner and children see if there is something in your life that you need to see or become in your present life first. There might be a crucial step in your progress right now that you are looking past in your focus for a family. It may well be that if you stop looking at your current life as inadequate for your happiness, you can find that aspect of your world that you can address and in doing so free yourself up for the next step.
To do this begin by making a list of all the things in your life that you can be grateful for, all the things about your life that are good. Then think of all the ways you can give and be of help to those around you. This gratitude shifts your worldview into a position of abundance instead of lack, peace instead of frustration. This change can make all the difference in unlocking your ability to manifest your desire.
Love,
Deepak
Janet Jackson has kid in her 50 ´s. Not just her, there was also singer in my country who had kid in 48...So its not impossible. Maybe you need to looking for a man somewhere else. Find ourself and then find the right man.
Janet Jackson has kid in her 50 ´s. Not just her, there was also singer in my country who had kid in 48...So its not impossible. Maybe you need to looking for a man somewhere else. Find ourself and then find the right man.