Help! Mom is Moving In.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
I am 27 years old and my ill Mother will be moving in with my partner and me. I am absolutely terrified of what this will do to me and my relationship as well as harboring resentment over the fact that since she has no money I will have to put all of my goals of buying a home and starting a family on hold almost indefinitely. In addition my job is showing signs of instability with a new boss who seems threatened by strong women. I am ridden with fear and even though I know meditation, etc., is the right path to peace, but I can’t seem to go there. Help please!!
Response:
Having your mom move in will certainly create some changes and challenges to your current life. However, it doesn’t have to be as dire and difficult as you presently envision it. Under the current story you are telling yourself about this, there is no opportunity for her stay with you to be anything but awful. But this situation has come into your life for a reason, and it is up to you to find the ways it will help strengthen you and foster the growth you need at this time in your life that will assist you in achieving the goals you mentioned.
Life rarely unfolds in a straight predictable path from our youthful goals to the adult outcomes. That is as it should be. That is what makes life interesting. So try to find a story for how your mom’s return to your life now will make you a better person, and that shift of perspective itself will allow wonderful things to happen as a consequence.
Love,
Deepak
we all are part of the wholeness. Unless we can go the level of conciousness above than what we have , we can not find the right solution . Here the problem is relationship. Let try to expand the awareness beyond the set limits, no need to go far as more so mother is the very close even genetically. Better go within and find a clear answer in silence . Namaskar
we all are part of the wholeness. Unless we can go the level of conciousness above than what we have , we can not find the right solution . Here the problem is relationship. Let try to expand the awareness beyond the set limits, no need to go far as more so mother is the very close even genetically. Better go within and find a clear answer in silence . Namaskar