Healing Childhood Abuse.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
I want to ask you about my childhood, I was misused by my uncle when I was 7-8 years. Now I’m 40 years old. Sometimes I feel sad and low. I could not tell anybody at that time. It is very painful now for me. What should I do to heal this pain? I pray to God. I know I’m not responsible for this. Then at the age of 10, I saw my mother with a cousin in a relationship. It was hard and I became afraid. I did not understand it. I didn’t have the courage to tell my papa because I thought it would destroy our family. Every day I was full of hate for this cousin. It was tough to share my mom with him. She gave me no attention and love then. Now I’m over it but it hurts me in my soul. I don’t know. I know nobody is responsible. I have some questions: Is this is my karma? Did I pay for something? How should I finish it now so that I can live my present life with my family in peace? Thanks in advance.
Response:
To heal this kind of childhood trauma, it will be important for you to talk with a professional counselor who has experience in these matters. I don’t think you are over this as much as you think you are. You are right to see that you were not responsible for their actions. But I don’t agree with your comment that your uncle, cousin and mother weren’t responsible either. They certainly are responsible because they made their choices as adults. Don’t concern yourself with philosophical issues of karma, focus on healing what has happened so that you can move forward freely and without this deep pain.
Love,
Deepak
