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June 16 2013

Spiritual Solutions - Saying I Love You

Category:  Spiritual Solutions

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Nick is having a relationship problem - someone has told him that they love him after knowing him for three days.
Is it possible to fall in love so quickly? How should he react to someone who tells him they love him after three days?

Top comments

  • There is no standard answer. I proposed after 3 days! We both knew right away we had something special. 10 months later, we were married. That was 36 years ago. We have never questioned or doubted our decision. <3

    Tony Dekker // 2013-06-16 21:07:43 // //
  • I love your response to a three day "I love you!". I agree with you. I also love the background picture in the window :) Super Tramp "Breakfast In America".... excellent sound track for a 3-day love affair "Good-buy Stranger" is perfect for this infatuation. Keep these coming - it is always helpful and I get something out of every question asked and every answer given :)) Thanks for all that you do! RAZ

    RAZ // 2012-08-02 15:17:02 // //

 

 

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    olivia // 2014-01-17 22:00:21 // //
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    preciouslevitte // 2013-11-20 16:40:09 // //
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    rita // 2013-09-07 02:58:16 // //
  • I can love someone instantly what a beautiful gift.....<3

    Gabriela Katona // 2013-06-20 13:30:40 // //
  • BELIVE ME,,,IS COULD BE WORST if someone said that just knowing you by INTERNET , PLUS INVITE YOU TO EAT AT HIS APARTAMENT?. NOT IN PUBLIC.!!!

    Margarita Oliveros // 2013-06-18 13:33:58 // //
  • love the advice!

    angie711 // 2013-06-18 07:38:30 // //
  • No one can answer that for you. You have to search your own heart. Advice is great, sure, but all 'your' answers are in you. These comments all make total sense depending how each person has experienced love that has been 'vocalized' so quickly. One's experience IS one's experience; it is personal to them... and on that topic there is no right nor wrong answer, persay. It is all just lessons on love on our journey as a pure spirit in an egoistic human body; a body with needs and wants and desires. We must learn to have compassion for the ego as it trips along the way, at times. (It is important to understand that we originate from pure love, but we get lost in 'ego' in the density of planet earth. Ego tends to konk us over the head, so to speak, and it produces an illusory state; an amnesia to our pure origins. The ego only sees via the lower chakras and is like a little child who has broken a toy. It cannot see beyond wants and immediate gratification and it just cries to be loved and understood...but in truth we are also pure spirit and, yes, also love. This 'ego and pure spirit thing' can be quite confusing, at times.) My opinion? Well, I hypothesize that we all have oodles of soulmates whom we have known in past incarnations and only one true twin soul whom we may ONLY meet after we have fully balanced our yin and yang. (Not everyone will agree with me... which is fine) Before we meet the ONE we must live in non judgement and release past ties to karma...which for most of us...has been a journey that has taken us along many, many timelines and lifetimes. Along that journey we WILL get ample opportunity to practice non judgement and true forgiveness with soulmates. The Universe is a wonderful teacher and tester no? How quickly we advance all depends on our own self as we comprehend true peace, love and compassion. On the journey to rediscover your heart's wholeness you will also see the light of 'your' ONE twin soul reflected in the eyes of many others as they reflect that 'pure energy'. The energy of the ONE complimentary twin, to you, is intense and until you are in a space where your heart is clear and ready to handle 'that which is pure love' you will only be shown 'glimpses' via others. Meditation and spending time in Divine space will allow you to allow love to flow with respect, acceptance and also non-judgement.. I am not assuming that you do not do this, but words cannot hurt you...and only you can decide. It is also important not to get too lost in 'words'. My words, his/her words or even your own words...are just 'words'. And based on my words alone...words can confuse or free us depending on how we read them. You only have 2 choices, really...and it comes down to love or fear. It really depends where YOU are on this journey. Those who met a great love can only speak to their experience as great love. Both parties have to be 'there' and perhaps those who met this way were 'there'. I can't speak for anyone. Nonetheless, to be told you are loved is flattering. Meet love with love, I would say. Be the example and let the Divine flow through you, but again...that is for you to decide.

    Mawma Lorelei // 2013-06-17 13:08:39 // //
  • Their definition of love is different than yours. If you like them, just wait and see. You may find you like being with someone with such a big capacity for love.

    Linda Sue Russell // 2013-06-17 10:06:47 // //
  • at that moment they saw something in you, that was a spark for themselves?

    Rebecca Mae Lipski-Evans // 2013-06-17 09:54:26 // //
  • go with the flow..

    Rebecca Mae Lipski-Evans // 2013-06-17 09:52:42 // //
  • Run Forrest run!!! LOL LOL

    Sherie Burkhead // 2013-06-17 07:43:19 // //
  • Scary

    Debbie Drysdale // 2013-06-17 02:28:14 // //
  • There is no standard answer. I proposed after 3 days! We both knew right away we had something special. 10 months later, we were married. That was 36 years ago. We have never questioned or doubted our decision. <3

    Tony Dekker // 2013-06-16 21:07:43 // //
  • Maybe this person sees something in you that no one else does.Dont let anyone scare you in to doubt and fear .Everyone wants to be right and everyone is afraid of surrendering .Just remember you dont meet the one they become the one.

    The Catalyst // 2013-06-16 20:55:14 // //
  • Not true love. Too fresh...

    Wendy Siegel // 2013-06-16 19:56:34 // //
  • FYI: there is nothing needy about knowing that you love someone in three days, three hours, three minutes, three seconds is all it takes, `love at first sight` is significantly less than three days... if you believe in `Love`, then why the heck not?

    Amber Sky // 2013-06-16 19:45:52 // //
  • That is way too soon. I think when anything weather a romantic relationship or friendship goes too fast the one that's pushing it overwhelms the other one and its a form of neediness and manipulation.

    Susie Perez // 2013-06-16 19:24:33 // //
  • Watch & Wait-

    Jane Davis // 2013-06-16 18:31:57 // //
  • Run

    Leo Everett // 2013-06-16 18:24:56 // //
  • RED flag! It should tell you that there's some possible mental issues going on in that person and you need to decide if that's really what you want to have going on in your life at that moment.

    Lisa Whittaker // 2013-06-16 18:21:58 // //
  • Love at first sight happens. However,a relationship does take time to evolve. Im married for 27 yrs to someone i was not attracted to when we first met. But a few years later, we started dating and that was almost 30 yrs ago. You just never know.love is a mystery.

    Barbara Plunkett // 2013-06-16 18:18:54 // //
  • Run. That is the only option.

    Shawn Conrad // 2013-06-16 18:16:23 // //
  • Yep, that 'I love you' usually follows with them wanting MONEY.

    Sheri Veronica // 2013-06-16 18:11:29 // //
  • Tell them you don't love them.

    Frank Novello // 2013-06-16 18:09:50 // //
  • I dont know you but I can say that I love you because I love life and I face it with pure love. It does not mean I am in love and cant bear to be without you. ask her what it means. potentially you have loved each other in another life and she feels the connection, possibly its hormones or maybe she is an emotional person who thinks sex is love. she is the only one who can really answer

    Dawn Gill // 2013-06-16 17:48:33 // //
  • I tell them I love them too. It doesn't mean we are picking out china. It means we are two beings who have bonded on a spiritual level. I make no decisions based on it and I am very honest.

    Jennifer Hulford // 2013-06-16 17:35:10 // //
  • Look at him like he got 3 heads.

    Sheki Williams // 2013-06-16 17:30:46 // //
  • Great post!

    Helen Williams // 2013-06-16 17:28:36 // //
  • Love is always good, there is nothing negative about it. And people are responsible for their own feelings.

    Mary Mendoza // 2013-06-16 17:20:31 // //
  • I know the feeling ... illusion ...

    Guy Charland // 2013-06-16 17:19:09 // //
  • they [or / and you] may know that after 3 seconds. what you DO, is the question.

    Angie Lindenau // 2013-06-16 17:15:47 // //
  • Stalker...........run!

    Sadie Poliah // 2013-06-16 16:52:09 // //
  • no... three days is not enough to really love u. she may like u and enjoy your presence but love you.. when you are at your worst, when you get angry, when you are down in the gutter.love you for just being who you are. No...that takes time, years, and you don't even realize it, Love you behond sex. what would happen if you couldn't fullfill her womanly needs. would she love you and be will ing to stick by you forever? Love is a decision , love is loyalty, respect, justice, consideration, love is so many things. this love builds up with time. not three days.

    Lila Mejias Torres // 2013-06-16 16:46:55 // //
  • Men are usualy afraid of these words, and could take a life time for them to say the words. A woman knows from the very beginning if she's in love or not. It's the chemistry and there are the instincts, women are known to be very intuitive. If a man holds back and doesn't show his love, just run! Wait for the one who's not afraid to show you his love. Three days is not too early if they've seen each other daily... It depends on the conversation they had, the things and passion they share, their view on life and their level of awareness... It doesn't take long to fall in love :)

    Marilena Popescu // 2013-06-16 16:41:39 // //
  • Eckhart Tolle, Perfect definition of love, youtube! He hits the nail of the head! Watch it fantastic! We can relate to it! Totally enlightened.

    Ruba Probert // 2013-06-16 16:38:49 // //
  • My husband introduced his best friend to one of my best friends on a Sunday, he (the friend) proposed to her on Tuesday (2 days later), they got married 3 weeks later on a Saturday...will celebrate their 13th anniversary (including 2 beautiful children) in August. 33 days from introduction to marriage.

    Pamela Hilliard Owens // 2013-06-16 16:37:24 // //
  • Wow that's too slow I would say! I love you and I have not met you at all!! That's LOVE!!! What's the matter? Love is in the air we breath. Thanks for sharing this article, it is awesome! Namaste

    Edda Suarez Benitez // 2013-06-16 16:36:41 // //
  • Just do it man!!.. do u need advice for everything??

    Saif Harris // 2013-06-16 16:36:14 // //
  • I knew after 3 months.. course we saw each other every day.. and spent a lot of time talking over coffee and lunch you tend to get to know someone well when you do that

    Kimberley Jackshaw // 2013-06-16 16:31:59 // //
  • 3 days is way too early

    Kimberley Jackshaw // 2013-06-16 16:30:41 // //
  • it's a good topic

    Mária Tóth // 2013-06-16 16:29:14 // //
  • 3 days seems a bit early, but I would ask where does this feel like it is coming from. Does it FEEL needy? Does the person love themselves and feels very confident in who they are? If so they may be very in tune with what they want and hopefully are attracting someone similar. I think when 2 people finally get to the point in life where they know what they want, ask the divine for it and then the divine introduces them together there might be this knowingness from the beginning they are the one. Again. Does it feel like neediness or do they really want to share themselves. Agree with Deepak. Time will tell. I would also recommend if you want to experiment ;), not having sex for the first 4 weeks. Connect with the other chakras first and get to know them. You will be more conscious to red flags as the root chakra can over power the others at the start of the relationship. That is what was given to me by my higher power and ended up marrying him 2 years later ✌.

    David Swaisgood // 2013-06-16 16:25:02 // //
  • protective order?

    Connie Vasquez // 2013-06-16 16:22:01 // //
  • I did and we together 40yrs,LOVE can happen in a wink of a eye and i know people wont agree, but it worked 4me,and its grown through the years.Theres a soul mate 4 all some where out there and i found mine and learn that we met as children months later.

    Althea Amelia Haigh // 2013-06-16 16:21:24 // //
  • i just cant believe how gullible i used to be...once upon a time.

    Smita Smi // 2013-06-16 16:20:36 // //
  • RUN! Run like the wind! (I speak from experience.)

    Lynn Cross // 2013-06-16 16:09:42 // //
  • RUN!!!

    Maria Alina Salvo // 2013-06-16 16:09:37 // //
  • Even a couple ir a few months is too short to know the difference, imo..

    Karen Valli // 2013-06-16 16:09:13 // //
  • a huge red flag!

    Graciela DeAraujo // 2013-06-16 16:07:32 // //
  • Maybe they mean in a Divine (agape) Love way? Lol... :D - My opinion is I'll take all the Love that comes at me until it starts trying to dress like me and follows me everywhere I go. ;)

    Eli Hernandez // 2013-06-16 16:06:27 // //
  • Yeah so weird its different because we didnt Watch them grow to love one another. Never much time to celebrate them as a couple. Its awkward for US who Watch them.

    Arvin Robles // 2013-06-16 16:06:13 // //
  • Se le quiere mucho

    Lorenzo Guitron // 2013-06-16 16:05:55 // //
  • Three days? If they can't tell right away, to hell with them.

    Peter Gugerell // 2013-06-16 16:05:13 // //
  • Many guys say they knew they were going to marry a woman on meeting them.

    Quanda DeChenye // 2013-06-16 16:05:04 // //
  • or an eternity?

    Luca Todoca
    // 2012-09-19 03:11:29 // //
  • or a lifetime

    Luca Todoca
    // 2012-09-19 03:10:51 // //
  • what if infatuation lasts for years?

    Luca Todoca
    // 2012-09-19 03:10:21 // //
  • That weird moment when both the top comments are from the same person...

    Suzaku Kururugi
    // 2012-09-04 23:59:42 // //
  • Interesting question and responses. Infatuation can be a potent experience. Easily mistaken for love. But love can be all consuming in itself. Love is freedom. Its also madness in a way as it can push to the very limits of one`s comfort zone. Love serves but true loving relqtionships are an equation of trust and mutual understanding and acceptance. Love has many faces and facets. Some appear dark some light, some even taboo, what is important is the mutual agreement and understanding between the people involved. On a conscious level. It is possible to feel a deep connection with another soul qlmost at first glimpse. I personally think there`s more to love than saying three words. ,

    sarah // 2012-08-10 16:12:34 // //
  • serious stuff

    1freshfresh
    // 2012-08-09 22:50:41 // //
  • Hello, I would say Thank you, it happens all the time. It`s a curse or a blessing. Thre days is a little too needy for me. I make sure to say I love them also, but not in a romantic way, just as a human being. I had gone out one night with a male friend who prefers men. Yet, he was drunk and kept saying."I LOVE YOU." I said " okay I love you too you are my friend." He proceeds to get serious and goes on and on about NO!! I REALLY REALLY love you. Im drinking and laughing it off. Thinking back, I kind of shrugged it off with humor and went dancing and having fun, and he just sat there at the bar very sad. I wish I had known that he was serious because I would not have been so aloof about it.He died at 32 and I never got to tell him, I loved him dearly and wish I had said:Not in a sexual way, but a stronger love than that.

    Cynthia Mello // 2012-08-05 13:01:41 // //
  • It's important to know what Love is. Acceptance, willingness to learn and share, to feel free to ask questions, and to know in conclusion: "You are Loved." See The Path To Love by Deepak Chopra. It helps to listen before making judgements too.

    Cheryle Gagnon // 2012-08-02 17:36:46 // //
  • I love your response to a three day "I love you!". I agree with you. I also love the background picture in the window :) Super Tramp "Breakfast In America".... excellent sound track for a 3-day love affair "Good-buy Stranger" is perfect for this infatuation. Keep these coming - it is always helpful and I get something out of every question asked and every answer given :)) Thanks for all that you do! RAZ

    RAZ // 2012-08-02 15:17:02 // //
  • I can tell the difference between infatuation and love. I've met women before that turn me on who I know I don't "love". It's a lot more than lust.

    Steve Wein // 2012-08-02 14:01:58 // //
  • Yeah, rushing into anything is usually a sign of instability. Any time a person acts like that too quick, a lot of times they have unresolved emotional issues within themself, and will end up coming out at you. Time is a very important factor when deciding on getting into "relationships", any really, doesn't just have to be a romantic situation either. All sorts of strange uncool things can go on between people. But anyone rushing, is giving a giant red flag, meaning go the other direction, slow it way way down, then notice what they do. :D interesting to watch. Usually they either flip out, or move to some other weaker soul. Its a simple test, if they slow down & get past the initial enthusiasm and still maintain a level head, then they could be worth keeping around. ;)

    Kendall Gee // 2012-08-02 01:37:08 // //
  • Follow your instinct.x

    Monica Sharma // 2012-08-02 01:21:22 // //
  • I love u Deepak :D

    Joah Pm // 2012-08-01 23:00:48 // //
  • Good answer...I guess time is the real factor in getting to know someone after those infatuation hormones dwindle and the reading glasses or the binoculars suddenly appear out of nowhere. Smiles...

    Tish Pugh // 2012-08-01 22:48:48 // //
  • I say RUN ---- been there did that was a abusive situation. Blessings to those that had it turn out well such as Jan F above. Not all as lucky many bad relationships begin in a fury of time as one declares their need/love for the other . Just finished watching a thing on stalking in which 2 situations was similiar.

    Lisa Wilson // 2012-08-01 22:45:44 // //
  • Each situation is different with different people and different circumstances. How can someone judge something like this?!

    Steve Wein // 2012-08-01 21:01:32 // //
  • Been there but mine took 4 days!! We just celebrated 9 years of being "one" in marriage - we are true soulemates....so many common threads that connected our souls that led to our first meeting 9 years ago....total happiness!!

    Jan Fanning // 2012-08-01 20:49:03 // //
  • After 3 days! Translation: and I love your bank account; and your house; and your car and truck; and I love your clothes please shop for me too" yeah RUN is right!! Best thing is to spend the year (all 4 seasons) with this person to see if they stay the same as the elements change. Then you'll know if it's love or need/lust.

    Myrna Gabriel // 2012-08-01 19:03:32 // //
  • This is a great way to give advice in short video form. And I liked Deepak`s answer (as always).

    Gwen // 2012-08-01 18:07:28 // //
  • Been there. Now married 29 years.

    Ellyn Camp // 2012-08-01 18:00:50 // //
  • Run Forrest Run!

    Gerald Rappaport // 2012-08-01 17:59:04 // //
  • There are many who believe in love at first site. Is it true love or just an infatuation?

    Tony Ricardo // 2012-08-01 17:14:44 // //
  • I have experienced it's best to be honest to everyone all the time....You might hurt's certain people's childish feelings, but you are preventing a lot of unnecessary misery for everyone ( really everyone, including yourself, the people who claim they have something to do with you and/or who say they love you and the rest of the world). If now a person would start speaking to me on some internet-forum, for whatever reason(about guitar-solos in music, particularly rock, metal or progressive), then I would just say I didn't know him and I am not interested in him, his favourite music, any of his guitar-playing, his band any of the people he knows and I would certainly not talk to him or anyone he knows.

    Vinay Sardjoe // 2012-08-01 17:13:01 // //
  • Love coming from a woman usually means love or infatuation...from a man, give me sex. Sad but true.

    Kendall Gee // 2012-08-01 16:59:34 // //
  • Great answer, Deepak!! :-)

    Violeta Morales // 2012-08-01 16:44:43 // //
  • I had a man tell me he was in love with me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me after 3 days! He wanted me to move in with him and his 13 year old son after knowing me for 3 days!! I ran!

    Julie McSorley // 2012-08-01 16:40:38 // //
  • weeeee

    Katarina G. Montenegro // 2012-08-01 16:21:11 // //
  • I agree - RUN!

    Vidal Torres // 2012-08-01 16:18:24 // //
  • If a guy says it, YOU KNOW IT AIN'T REAL! lol

    Kendall Gee // 2012-08-01 16:17:50 // //
  • That`s a great answer. Thank you. :-)

    miramaze // 2012-08-01 16:17:33 // //
  • it depends whether its a 'lust' love, or 'needy' love, OR on an energetic level, there is a deep connection you share with that person and you just know you love them.

    Robin Elisabeth // 2012-08-01 16:15:47 // //
  • I would wait a year, thats what one of my partners did to me and I still loved him. And still be only friends for that year.

    Melly Fay // 2012-08-01 16:14:31 // //
  • LOL nice Deepak!!

    Atasi Mukherjee // 2012-08-01 16:08:52 // //
  • To know is to love!

    Bryan Neyedli // 2012-08-01 16:07:17 // //
  • No need to watch it - here's what you do: RUN!!!!!!!!

    Dana Bradford // 2012-08-01 16:07:06 // //
  • thanks

    SteamerElgin
    // 2012-08-01 16:04:39 // //
  • Holy Hannah!!! This just happened to me!!!!

    Julie McSorley // 2012-08-01 16:04:07 // //
  • Funny stuff :)

    welldonefromhereon
    // 2012-07-31 20:24:15 // //
  • good question, thanks i love this channel.

    jimmycodmw2
    // 2012-07-31 16:52:25 // //
  • i love you

    jimmycodmw2
    // 2012-07-31 16:50:26 // //
  • Excellent explanation. Most times when this happens, the other person starts to pull away and the other person is hurt because of it. Thank you Deepak, for the kind and useful answer :)

    superflysquirrel
    // 2012-07-31 16:31:26 // //