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We can either allow our past to keep interfering with our optimal expression of love and happiness, or we can move beyond our past with renewed passion for life.

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Soul of Leadership (Hardcover)

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ABOUT THIS BOOK Leadership is the most crucial choice one can make—it is the decision to step out of darkness into the light.      Bestselling author and spiritual guide Deepak Chopra invites...

Brotherhood - by Deepak & Sanjiv Chopra (Hardcover)

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Joyful Wisdom

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ABOUT THEBOOK: Yongey Mingyur is one of the most celebrated among the new generation of Tibetan meditation masters, whose teachings have touched people of all faiths around the world. His first...

Super Brain by Deepak Chopra, MD & Rudy Tanzi, MD (Hardcover)

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Book Of Secrets

Book Of Secrets
2005 Nautilus Book Award Grand Prize Winner! New York Times Best Seller! Every life is a book of secrets, ready to be opened. The secret of perfect love is found there, along with the secrets...

Creating Sacred Space with Feng Shui

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Ten Poems to Change Your Life

Ten Poems to Change Your Life
ABOUT THE BOOK: This is a dangerous book. Great poetry calls into question not less than everything. It dares us to break free from the safe strategies of the cautious mind. It opens us to pain...

GOD: A Story of Revelation (Hardcover)

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March 28 2013

How To Be Adaptable - Rule6

Category:  Deepak Quotes

Rebuild the bonds that have become frayed.
How To Be Adaptable - Rule6

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  • Some unhealthy relationships should not be repaired. Narcissistic people can be abusive forever if you interact with them at all. sometimes best to look forward not back at abusers.

    Donna Potter // 2013-01-27 12:53:42 // //
  • Who are they? Sounds like duality..... which you are trying to transcend...

    Your Soul // 2012-12-02 14:00:00 // //

 

 

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  • Impossible if the other party is not interested in changing.

    Kim Swanson // 2013-03-29 10:31:28 // //
  • my husband and I rekindled our relationship after 32 years

    Katalin Gyokeny // 2013-03-29 09:14:23 // //
  • Found her after sixteen years of missing her every day. Now we're married.

    Timothy Wood // 2013-03-29 05:41:43 // //
  • Commercial?

    Deborah Riley // 2013-03-29 05:25:30 // //
  • like

    Sandhya Devi Jhowry // 2013-03-28 22:51:39 // //
  • yes

    Christine Howe // 2013-03-28 21:19:30 // //
  • Yes and we are now together and happy. It only took 26 years!

    Cynthia Dotson Hill // 2013-03-28 21:02:29 // //
  • Like it.

    Jose Angel Rivera // 2013-03-28 19:44:45 // //
  • I agree 100%.

    La Star Corliss // 2013-03-28 17:06:53 // //
  • Poor James . . . he's "insulted."

    Michael Sutton // 2013-03-28 16:27:45 // //
  • I find your insinuations that we would need this supposed philosophy on such simple mundane things insulting

    James Bono // 2013-03-28 16:09:53 // //
  • Much easier said than done!!! However, a great and positive sentiment.

    Michael Sutton // 2013-03-28 15:50:57 // //
  • I found that when you free someone, evenually they come back...but we must keep them out of the mind...ego

    Diane Belair // 2013-03-28 15:28:12 // //
  • I tried but I cannot, would you please show me the way Mr Deepak

    Neyla Nejah // 2013-03-28 15:13:55 // //
  • WOW!!! That was good. I'm trying hard to rebuild a lost relationship. Pl pray for me.

    Shyamsundar Jayanthi // 2013-03-28 15:03:46 // //
  • Build new and stronger bonds!

    Sylvia O Parker // 2013-03-28 14:09:50 // //
  • Using mindfulness, to combat negative self-talk, using meditation and positive affirmations to channel my focus toward meaningful task and gaining insight as well as creativity, and also being able to realize that another's conditioning is not a hindrance, but a starting point!

    Ernie TheFbphilosopher Brewer // 2013-03-28 14:05:33 // //
  • it happened to me..related to my personal relationship with somebody...no regrets soever...

    Sevda Guliyeva // 2013-03-28 13:59:32 // //
  • Of course and I just came upon this reading yesterday: "In this way Maezumi Roshi likened sangha to a bag a rocks. It is by rubbing and grating against one another that we are polished." And also agree that there is a time for "Detach with Love".

    Laurie Lyons // 2013-03-28 13:52:35 // //
  • Thank you :*

    Mária Tóth // 2013-03-28 13:44:29 // //
  • Working on it now and I have faith it can work. :)

    Ana Laura Guzman // 2013-03-28 13:41:30 // //
  • tough task but possible

    Sumit Maurya // 2013-03-28 13:40:07 // //
  • Easier said than done.

    Lisa Leigh Bennett // 2013-03-28 13:37:30 // //
  • Still not 100% sure...

    Victoria L. Albers // 2013-03-28 13:37:21 // //
  • Yes with my Father.. we did make it better and I spent a lot of time with him until his last breath... I forgave because I started understanding him better and I was in a place of spiritual growth where I could accept what he was and he apologized for the hurts he caused me and the healing happened before I lost him. I am blessed and grateful for that enlightenment. I also forgave myself for having anger and embraced him with love.

    Annee D. Morris // 2013-03-28 13:36:27 // //
  • love this.

    Robyn Chance // 2013-03-28 13:36:20 // //
  • It is a great read!

    Tom Herod // 2013-01-28 11:00:46 // //
  • Just ordered the Book, I can't wait to have it! :-)

    Nazmi Sejdiu // 2013-01-28 05:25:09 // //
  • Please when is this important book translated in the Dutch language?

    Josephine Baker // 2013-01-28 05:12:37 // //
  • can I?!

    Steve Wein // 2013-01-27 19:56:09 // //
  • Was lost but not repaired & ive tried over so many times until frustrations makes me feel like kicking your own mother in the head to make her get it...So u keep ur distance ...The experience makes me wanna be the best mom to my sons..So yeah Pak maybe it has.

    Sheki Williams // 2013-01-27 19:12:18 // //
  • oops, "to repair"

    Lollie Crenshaw // 2013-01-27 17:54:32 // //
  • Sometimes, we have the repair/ rebuild the frayed bonds within ourselves and try and have love/ forgiveness in our hearts for past relationships.

    Lollie Crenshaw // 2013-01-27 17:54:00 // //
  • Wow, It's so difficult but not impossible. Put attention in your heart!!!!

    Soledad Rozo // 2013-01-27 16:44:55 // //
  • I believe in moving on when other cant give u value u deserve.

    Nivedita Lal // 2013-01-27 15:54:01 // //
  • Nope, burnt bridges that I don't know how to rebuild. Brother who robbed deceased mom and abused her I tried to forgive. Seeing her stolen belongings in his home, 21 years later, still gets my dander up. The best I can do is be here for his caregiver when he really needs my input. The dangerously abusive father of my kids I had no problem forgiving, as it was me he hurt. I don't know how to stop being protective of my dead momma. Nor could I forgive anyone who hurt my kids, such as the drunk driver who seriously injured my daughter, son, and three of my grand children. My daughter forgave him right away, well is on the path to that anyway. I feel for his family, but am still so angry at him. The accident happened October 20th. Dr. Chopra, how do I forgive those who have hurt those I cherish?

    Danille Worthen-Miller // 2013-01-27 15:08:59 // //
  • The bonds can appear to be frayed, but the brains are too flexible for that to happen......

    Norman Échavarria // 2013-01-27 14:39:08 // //
  • I tried but denial and anger run too deep for some, Time to move on. Family means nothing to some.

    Jay B. Lawrence // 2013-01-27 14:23:35 // //
  • Yes!!! But it takes two

    Michelle Bleau // 2013-01-27 14:20:17 // //
  • tried to rebuild, they were not receptive...they r stuck in anger, I've moved on. I'll be waiting...

    Lisa Randall // 2013-01-27 14:16:43 // //
  • Yes my first marriage,tried for 7 years,but it did not worked that was the best thing I did even though it hurt so much,wish had done 7 years before,but never hated him & never regret it,have a beautiful Daughter & a thoughtful husband,but now after wonderful 35 years of marriage he is sick and angry.But as we vow in sickness & in health,but learn to love my self first in order to be able to look after others.We all have to carry our own cross.

    Helen Pataki // 2013-01-27 14:02:31 // //
  • Yes!!

    Heather Burke-Huyghue // 2013-01-27 13:55:06 // //
  • Yes I did I had too. Sadly it was my Father but it caused more pain than happiness. In his death bed he denied me his first born so I asked Our Father what I should do...I never called him back. He passed I don't feel guilty I never called back.

    Brenda Picart Rosado // 2013-01-27 13:44:22 // //
  • New patterns - all is not lost

    John Sonner // 2013-01-27 13:40:18 // //
  • Yes I did and I'm very grateful 4 the change I made for our journey had ended

    Nasrin Mayet // 2013-01-27 13:33:44 // //
  • Isnt that same thing?

    Denise CreativeSpirit Wood // 2013-01-27 13:23:42 // //
  • Hmmm

    Gary William Allen // 2013-01-27 13:22:42 // //
  • fix it at ur end dont bother about the other..

    Krishna Prasad // 2013-01-27 13:20:46 // //
  • yes

    Zahra Nuzhat // 2013-01-27 13:19:12 // //
  • LOVE this so much. Thanks

    Paula Orellana // 2013-01-27 13:15:46 // //
  • I tried, but it didn't work; too much time and life changes in between.

    Kathy Andes // 2013-01-27 13:09:32 // //
  • I'm currently in the midst of this getting book ASAP to help me along the journey

    Wanda Negron // 2013-01-27 13:05:32 // //
  • There's one from four lifetimes ago that I desperately want to repair. It's blindingly present for me. But I must send out my love through the Universe it seems, he is out of my reach.

    Pamela Sue // 2013-01-27 13:02:43 // //
  • But what about one sided relationships? Where one wants to rebuild, but the other doesn't?

    Debi Thompson-Boring // 2013-01-27 12:56:17 // //
  • Forget frayed, what about broken?

    Sheila A. Bounds // 2013-01-27 12:54:31 // //
  • Some unhealthy relationships should not be repaired. Narcissistic people can be abusive forever if you interact with them at all. sometimes best to look forward not back at abusers.

    Donna Potter // 2013-01-27 12:53:42 // //
  • Yes...

    Moon Child // 2013-01-27 12:52:45 // //
  • ok :)

    Mariann Boda Toth // 2013-01-27 12:51:25 // //
  • yes. but there was also one i tried to get back & couldn't.

    Kathie-Kate Frey // 2013-01-27 12:50:50 // //
  • yes, I made it !

    Carol Serra // 2013-01-27 12:50:27 // //
  • Would really like to with one .... yet the opportunity is never achieved.

    Gwendolyn Holden Barry // 2013-01-27 12:49:40 // //
  • YES :) !!

    Diana Richards // 2013-01-27 12:48:47 // //
  • Yes :)

    Sharon Albany // 2013-01-27 12:47:20 // //
  • I am truly enjoying reading 'Super Brain'.

    Alice Jerahian // 2012-12-02 20:38:01 // //
  • I have just ordered the "Super Brain" items from PBS...can't wait for it to arrive!

    Marilyn Mallary // 2012-12-02 19:28:16 // //
  • Definitely get those who wallow in their own pity out of your life. Rebuilding connections when they continue to whine and moan about their condition just doesn't work. That's why I adapted to be alone in this world. I'm better off without them and much better off connected with God.

    Kim Swanson // 2012-12-02 14:25:33 // //
  • Perfect!

    The Nudge You Need // 2012-12-02 14:22:41 // //
  • Who are they? Sounds like duality..... which you are trying to transcend...

    Your Soul // 2012-12-02 14:00:00 // //
  • this is why i love your teachings!!!!

    Robin S. Windom // 2012-12-02 12:50:17 // //
  • Yes to rebuilding the frayed bonds! Thank you and Blessings Dear One <3

    Amy White Decker // 2012-12-02 12:42:58 // //
  • :3

    Lizeth IR // 2012-12-02 12:41:53 // //
  • I can't WAIT to read this book! :)

    Suzy Rice // 2012-12-02 12:39:30 // //
  • I believe this is called a teaser. You have to read the book to find out.

    Duane M Schneider // 2012-12-02 12:29:31 // //
  • Wonderful Deepak!!!

    Susana Norte // 2012-12-02 12:27:28 // //
  • And how do we do that?

    Mary Murphy // 2012-12-02 12:22:49 // //
  • Hi Deepak, when are you going to write a book on meditation for children?

    Breeze Summers // 2012-12-02 12:17:55 // //