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July 04 2013

Time to End a Relationship

Category:  Ask Deepak

Question:

How do we know that it is time to end a relationship and move on?

Response:

Apart from the obvious cases of physical abuse in the relationship, the ego mind can never know for sure it is doing the right thing. What you need to do then is not think in terms of doing what is ‘right’, but rather what your intuition tells you is the necessary or appropriate action to take. This is very different from figuring out the right thing to do. Instead it requires you to listen deeply to your heart’s guidance for what the next direction you need to take. A simple formula doesn’t work, because it won’t necessarily be the same answer from one person to the next, or even the same answer for you from one year to another. But learning to follow your heart is an invaluable skill to develop for all your life’s decisions.

Love,
Deepak

Top comments

  • Someone once told me, it is time to move on when: 1. There is no growth and improvement 2. There is no love 3. The relationship has become violent. The rest can be worked on and forgiven, and is most likely a reflection of yourself.

    Helen StarCave // 2013-07-05 12:32:47 // //
  • I just moved out of a relationship because it no longer gave me Joy. Instead I was full of fear and fear of loss. If I turn to Divine Love I can forgive and let go.

    Kathryn Hill // 2013-07-04 20:08:43 // //

 

 

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  • First don`t start a relation if you already know you gonna break up. Connect dots not spots ;) Don`t waste time. Before you start a relationship learn more about this person. The biggest problem in relations are how good couples can get along and work together, sharing the same goals. Offcourse every mutual goal is possible. When you don`t go for the same goal it`s time to end the relation. Also different cultures have different ways and guidelines. As humans we are still in search for solutions and this will never end, same goes for relationship problems. What can help find us more answers makes people afraid, like dnapapa. A platform where every newborn is checked for his or her dna and will be matched with his or her parents. Telling all risks every new born baby could have and putting an end to broken relations between children and the other biological creator "the father". At least on paper.

    Boyke // 2013-07-12 05:13:06 // //
  • Try thinking of giving it another chance and start afresh. If this thought also does not give u your peace of mind and smile back... Know that its time to move on to better things in Life. Thats my experience..

    Astha // 2013-07-11 02:34:03 // //
  • I,too, like Kathryn Hill, moved on from a relationship (well, I was forced to because he`s in prison!) ...looking back I was FULL of fear everyday of what was going to happen; always looking over my shoulder...always wondering when he was going to do meth again. Lesson learned, however, I wished that I would have initially followed my gut instinct, my unbearable anxiety and panic as I knew that this person`s history was a predictor of his future and he did indeed prove that to be correct. And when I say history, I do not mean 1-2 incidents with the law ... it was a long-term 20-year path of destruction of others and his own self-destruction. I do not regret this relationship as I learned so much about myself and what I want in life. What he was serving up was definitely not what I wished to order!

    crystalpdx // 2013-07-08 00:19:33 // //
  • To Hope N Faith Your heart is connected to ur brain which see`s ur need. Because of this, ur heart will desire it. So if u are confliction with what ur brain can see, ur heart will be clouded. So, with ur faith in God, u are in the right place to start with. Some people don`t have this gift so what is being said will help & maybe soon they will understand the act of God on to them.

    Niksfm131 // 2013-07-06 22:05:26 // //
  • WHEN LOVE IS OVER

    Laura Bervera Almada // 2013-07-06 20:29:35 // //
  • Deepak, glad to see you're for marriage equality! Thanks for supporting the cause!

    Nancy Zagunis // 2013-07-06 17:46:34 // //
  • But what if your love for an abusive partner clouds your intuition. What if the abuse is psychological. :-(

    Pam // 2013-07-06 15:21:26 // //
  • Not easy but worth doing! Sometimes we think we are listening to our heart and it`s just ego, telling us the best way to "suffer" less, or just taking decisions by anger. It takes time, and sometimes we will have accept maybe there is no clear decision, but we can use that situation to forgive, and conect with our real master. (sorry my english not so good , hope you understand)

    Fabiana // 2013-07-06 09:12:47 // //
  • Chit tu shid ne chinta kare krishn ne karvu hoy te kare

    Pushpa Gohel // 2013-07-06 04:57:53 // //
  • Sivadas Simon Thompson, should I be worried about this?

    Helen Gray // 2013-07-06 04:40:27 // //
  • Your answers are so right and useful Mr. Chopra. I feel I have to thank you for existing!!

    Melba Cardenas Castillo // 2013-07-06 02:07:31 // //
  • When the money runs out.

    David Fuente Jr. // 2013-07-06 00:14:38 // //
  • It is difficult to follow the heart when the situations are not smooth one after the other BUT eventually one realizes that it was the only path which made sense.

    Ravneet Chawla Bagga // 2013-07-05 14:34:55 // //
  • god bless

    Nafdji Kumar Kulkarny Mukherjee // 2013-07-05 13:07:52 // //
  • Tan lindo que s eve con ese poloo peruanoo

    Luz Ponce Pasache // 2013-07-05 12:47:01 // //
  • Someone once told me, it is time to move on when: 1. There is no growth and improvement 2. There is no love 3. The relationship has become violent. The rest can be worked on and forgiven, and is most likely a reflection of yourself.

    Helen StarCave // 2013-07-05 12:32:47 // //
  • Love your Peru t-shirt!!!!!

    Olga Guillen // 2013-07-05 12:19:36 // //
  • Thanks. Good point

    Izabella Lipetski RealEstate // 2013-07-05 11:36:53 // //
  • Asi es!

    Sofia Laura Cadillo Serrano // 2013-07-05 11:04:11 // //
  • Good point. Thank you!!!

    Paty Ar // 2013-07-05 09:55:56 // //
  • Thank you. Good point.

    Paty Ar // 2013-07-05 09:49:05 // //
  • Good point. Thanks.

    Paty Ar // 2013-07-05 09:47:58 // //
  • I am going throught this. I've been married for 12 years. I have been battling with this this very question for many months. It is very hard to let go when you still feel a deep connection with the person, even when it isn't reciprocated.

    Marshall Mason // 2013-07-05 09:40:46 // //
  • So true

    Vennie Chambers // 2013-07-05 09:40:45 // //
  • Thats true! Nice to see you using a peruvian t shirt :-) Thanks

    M Elena Velasquez // 2013-07-05 07:21:06 // //
  • I understand completely Lisa Weil, but as for myself that is living this situation currently and feeling somewhat trapped it does take time before acting on those realities

    Yvica Acivy // 2013-07-05 07:06:42 // //
  • So it is ☺

    Dominique Wauters // 2013-07-05 06:14:55 // //
  • God bless you Deepak...like anybody else :)

    Torben Meyer // 2013-07-05 05:22:39 // //
  • when there is no alternative even if you still love this person, love might be the right reason to leave

    Yvonne Kabel // 2013-07-05 03:50:56 // //
  • You have an airline ticket in your hand?

    Brien Assiter // 2013-07-05 03:25:06 // //
  • When your stomache hurts:)

    Amy Jones Polsky // 2013-07-05 03:20:51 // //
  • I agree

    Beebe Cline // 2013-07-05 03:20:07 // //
  • the strange feeling that you feel like your the most lost and lonely person in the world !(though you have everything you really dont)

    Feroz Cool // 2013-07-05 03:13:55 // //
  • We are in our most powerful state of creating "heaven on Earth" for ourselves when we "feel" happy / having fun (Cyndi had it right all along). If ANY relationship isn't fun anymore, it's about addiction and codependency. No one is doing anyone any favors by hanging out longer than that. Not that you stop loving, but you don't have to spend a bunch of time w/that person letting them bring down your life experience...healthy boundaries. And don't get all freaked out about not seeing them ever again. You will always seem them again, in this life or next...or our forever home on the Other Side. I hope one of you out there is getting what I'm saying. I do say it w/ <3 .

    Lisa Weil // 2013-07-05 03:03:12 // //
  • I really wish it was so easy....sometimes even though you know that its time to move on, you just battle it out with your own heart...trying to make believe that you cant fail..although you also know that 'this' is probably the threshold! What would you do then?

    Anki Ta // 2013-07-05 02:55:35 // //
  • People who aren't tuned into their intuition should try other avenues as it takes awhile to truly develop intuition.

    Rita Lott // 2013-07-05 02:20:04 // //
  • If the person makes you cry more than they make you smile, it may be time to go.

    Kim Smith // 2013-07-05 02:03:09 // //
  • can ALIENS meditate??can u guess?? THANKS DEEPAK

    ALIENS // 2013-07-05 01:58:42 // //
  • The very fact that you are asking your inner self the question is giving you the answer

    Wendy Green // 2013-07-05 01:55:37 // //
  • You are so right

    Alice Vialpando // 2013-07-05 01:28:09 // //
  • Oh please...up to that conclusion you dont need much!

    Elsa Rodrigues // 2013-07-05 01:04:57 // //
  • Ask your holy spirit. It knows much better, much earlier when it's time to move on. I didn't listen. This was a painful mistake. Today I listen. And if I have the courage I move on.

    Patrick Roemer // 2013-07-05 00:52:41 // //
  • Non attachment when love dies your spirit dies as well. You become numb and depressed..but a free spirit never dies follow your heart and then you will be. thanks deepak still miss our chats on twitter..

    Ra Fatal // 2013-07-05 00:30:32 // //
  • PERU LOVE YOU!

    Juana Flores // 2013-07-05 00:22:09 // //
  • You move on when you are ready to or when you are forced to.

    Dave Sky // 2013-07-05 00:17:36 // //
  • So true.

    Bethany Smith Walz // 2013-07-05 00:05:46 // //
  • Deepak, you are the best!

    Sudha Rao // 2013-07-04 23:54:08 // //
  • that is exactly what I did..I listened deeply to my soul for answers, and did not try to "think it out"...I just moved. I knew if I was to survive (my soul), I would have to go, and go right away, and I did. My hair grew back, I stopped cutting it finally!! I play the piano again, am writing & singing again, & getting my "soul skin" back. I am living again.

    Kit Bridgeman // 2013-07-04 23:18:05 // //
  • Intuition is the best, if only I would listen to it every time...Thank you I appreciate your thoughts !!!!

    Rebecca Barkey // 2013-07-04 23:00:53 // //
  • That is good

    Vanessa Huston // 2013-07-04 22:39:27 // //
  • One clue is, if he's texting his *other dates* while on a date with you! lol

    Cris Devine // 2013-07-04 22:38:43 // //
  • Sorry for spelling error (there)

    Linda M Shrader // 2013-07-04 22:34:49 // //
  • I believe their is a difference between intuition and the heart.

    Linda M Shrader // 2013-07-04 22:34:13 // //
  • I have learned this teaching the hard way,,. Great teacher <3

    Lauren Benjamin // 2013-07-04 22:27:36 // //
  • Great answer ., sometimes yu need to do the right thing , at others , to heed your intuition ,,

    Suman Dev-Mahajan // 2013-07-04 22:22:19 // //
  • Loving the t-shirt. xoxo'

    Isabela Villacorta // 2013-07-04 22:03:31 // //
  • <3

    Christine Miller // 2013-07-04 21:51:31 // //
  • Thank you Master!!!

    Rodrigo Gomez // 2013-07-04 21:39:27 // //
  • I do agree..to follow your heart is the best possible answer.

    Chaz Macken // 2013-07-04 21:19:34 // //
  • Sound advice,thank you.

    Leema Singh // 2013-07-04 21:09:39 // //
  • Thanks much

    TC Semra Türk // 2013-07-04 21:02:31 // //
  • thanks a lot.

    Happy Mind // 2013-07-04 20:48:14 // //
  • With much respect!!!!!

    Melody Walz // 2013-07-04 20:47:05 // //
  • Liked you since I got to know you, but now that you are wearing my country's t-shirt, you (and your allways important and interesting learnings) are definitively my NUMBER 1!!!!!!! Greetings from Lima!!

    Claudia Gordillo Gaviño // 2013-07-04 20:39:03 // //
  • he is my hero

    Linda Morales // 2013-07-04 20:19:27 // //
  • When one can not wait for the other to be on the dinner table, relationship is over as far I am concerned. Yes, you need to be that strict to maintain healthy relationship.

    Amarjit S Duggal // 2013-07-04 20:12:34 // //
  • Where had you been man, we became old waiting for you !

    Amarjit S Duggal // 2013-07-04 20:09:03 // //
  • I just moved out of a relationship because it no longer gave me Joy. Instead I was full of fear and fear of loss. If I turn to Divine Love I can forgive and let go.

    Kathryn Hill // 2013-07-04 20:08:43 // //
  • When you just don't care what happens to them.

    D Marie Medellin-Gasperich // 2013-07-04 19:50:40 // //
  • In my situation

    Ronda K Lavold // 2013-07-04 19:48:02 // //
  • Good question great answer !

    Hanh Nguyen's // 2013-07-04 19:46:31 // //
  • Surely needed this mesage today thank you

    Michele Hentges // 2013-07-04 19:37:05 // //
  • Debbie James

    Julie Tyers // 2013-07-04 19:33:38 // //
  • Hope N Faith Gods way is following the gifts of spirit which is peace joy love and they only come from within..:-) so trusting intuition is the same as trusting the person that created you..:-)

    Simeon Miglioranza // 2013-07-04 18:50:07 // //
  • I'd rather follow God's way. Not my heart. Our hearts might steer us in the wrong direction sometimes. God never fails.

    Hope N Faith // 2013-07-04 18:38:27 // //
  • Thank you Deepak!!!

    Edgar Allan // 2013-07-04 18:36:52 // //
  • Deepak you are love!! I was so lost in life to say the least and really didnt know how I got there, but I am so back and happier then ever!! I have been following your books and listen to your meditation for about two years. I feel great and look great to. My dream is to become a life coach in the spiritual/positive manner. You are my inspiration. Thank you!!

    Misty Lowder // 2013-07-04 18:26:47 // //
  • Thank you Deepak

    Penny Travers // 2013-07-04 18:26:30 // //
  • if you have to ask, it's probably time.

    Courtney Sue // 2013-07-04 18:06:30 // //
  • Thanks for this very good advice! Nevertheless I have seen experiences on myself and on other people also caring about consciousness with who we share our experiences to grow, that sometimes out of hurt and anger that are often linked, one is persuaded of listening to one's heart when really one's just listening one's ego, and that it took time and awareness work to realize with sincerity the mistake! The heart is much more hidden than the ego unfortunately!

    Anne Dara // 2013-07-04 17:59:19 // //
  • I try to make my decisions based on love rather than fear.

    Christopher Anderson // 2013-07-04 17:59:07 // //
  • Well for me it was when my soul stared dying inside.

    Deanna Matthews // 2013-07-04 17:50:34 // //
  • Always listen to your heart, it is difficult sometimes but end of the day this is only for the right thing

    Roxy Ismaty // 2013-07-04 17:37:29 // //
  • PERÚ !!! <3

    Angel De Amor // 2013-07-04 17:29:04 // //
  • I love you DC <3

    Carly Thomas // 2013-07-04 17:27:14 // //
  • I love your T-shirt!!!

    Jenny Lopez Cajamarca // 2013-07-04 17:25:03 // //
  • I agree trust yourself. If you have lost your self-trust ask yourself why? There are other types of abuse as well as physical; emotional and psychological abuse has a deep & long lasting impact. Don Hennessy, How he gets into her head.

    Sophia O Dowd // 2013-07-04 17:21:07 // //
  • So I followed my intuition for the absolute first time in my life. Now my thoughts are just wondering about 2 months after the decision. I know it's normal o question your decisions right? Just wanted to know why we would question the stronger part of us.

    Maria Noa Habshi // 2013-07-04 17:19:14 // //
  • Do you teach how to decipher what is the heart speaking? How to open the spiritual heart so that we can listen to it's guidance? Most people only talk about the heart but don't have a real experience of it. http://www.open-your-heart.org.uk/

    Kelly Gmach // 2013-07-04 17:18:12 // //
  • brilliant response, thank you. So true your intuition and heart will tell you.

    Dawn Auchmuty // 2013-07-04 17:12:41 // //
  • Seldom wrong

    Chiu Ching // 2013-07-04 17:10:32 // //
  • Follow heart ^;^

    Chiu Ching // 2013-07-04 17:10:21 // //
  • intuition is always the best teacher in the life, what comes from your heart is always the right answer.

    Paolo Busetti // 2013-07-04 17:08:53 // //
  • Sometimes your heart makes wrong decision that you regret for rest of your life

    Arezou Rezvani // 2013-07-04 17:04:25 // //
  • Deepak it's time to change your profile pic!!

    Marie Assali // 2013-07-04 16:59:16 // //
  • What a wonderful thought. Your intuition is the holy spirit within you.

    Treehouse AtRidgecrest // 2013-07-04 16:53:07 // //
  • Nice shirt Deepak!

    Carmen Howison // 2013-07-04 16:52:31 // //
  • thank you....

    Janice Frank Weinstein // 2013-07-04 16:50:40 // //
  • you give good advice

    Hilda Aiello // 2013-07-04 16:50:12 // //
  • thanks...

    Juan Oswaldo Rubio Bermùdez // 2013-07-04 16:41:15 // //
  • Very wise!

    Rosanna Schaffer-Shaw // 2013-07-04 16:40:23 // //
  • Listen to your heart rarely wrong!

    Vicki Berger-Marcus // 2013-07-04 16:36:02 // //
  • Thank you, Deepak!!!!!!!

    Xochilt Estupinián // 2013-07-04 16:34:00 // //
  • So true Deepak!

    Sima Mansoor // 2013-07-04 16:27:09 // //
  • How beautiful to see with the pole Deepak has Perù logo that gives me joy. You're a wonderful man I am very happy to meet you. A big hug. Greetings from Lima-Peru:;-)

    Yolanda Cáceres // 2013-07-04 16:19:10 // //
  • Anyway.. lets all rock out to some Roxette shall we? ha ha!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktRsl2hAPhY

    Alice Tracey // 2013-07-04 16:12:53 // //
  • So TRUE! Learning how to 'listen' to our Heart is so VERY important!!! Thank you, Deepak, for validating this!!

    Sherri Cousart // 2013-07-04 16:12:49 // //
  • I agree.

    Marga Preston // 2013-07-04 16:09:22 // //
  • HEART OR MIND? Maybe follow your HEART and use LOGIC to IMPLEMENT what your heart tells you to do... now that might be a cool strategy that works better than using logic to control or ignore the heart's innate wisdom. Maybe? How would that take us higher? :)

    Alice Tracey // 2013-07-04 16:09:21 // //
  • Stephanie Engelsman // 2013-07-04 16:03:36 // //
  • So true!

    Mila Bansie // 2013-07-04 16:02:50 // //
  • Tks!

    Nirupama Loretan // 2013-07-04 16:01:51 // //
  • <3

    Cynthia Capel // 2013-07-04 16:00:30 // //
  • Good point...

    Zora J. Chopite // 2013-07-04 15:55:52 // //
  • it's right :)

    Noemí Pineda // 2013-07-04 15:48:37 // //
  • nice!! you are wearing a Peruvian t- shirt, you look great :-) .. that is my home country

    Abril Hermoza Lozano // 2013-07-04 15:35:46 // //
  • And therein lies our 'work'

    Debbie Kukla // 2013-07-04 15:29:12 // //
  • To really have the ability to listen to your heart it take a lot practice living your life in alignment with your subconscious , since most people not there yet, it can be confusing and not reliable to make such a big move just base on your heart. I will pay more attention to learn to follow the heart on small thing.....by doing so most likely you will stay happy in your relationship

    Uriel Tedgi // 2013-07-04 15:25:54 // //
  • I love your t-shirt. I have one just like yours :)

    Yolanda Almaraz-Grandchant // 2013-07-04 15:24:21 // //
  • how about when your mind says its time to let go and your heart says hold on?

    Lisa Ramos // 2013-07-04 15:24:16 // //
  • BINGO!!!

    Anuradha Manga // 2013-07-04 15:22:16 // //
  • A hearty thanks @Sandy Depew for admiration and having such great thought

    Born TO Inspire U // 2013-07-04 15:14:16 // //
  • wise advice!!!thanks

    Basilica Phocas // 2013-07-04 15:11:33 // //
  • Thank'you

    Franca Dariol // 2013-07-04 15:10:05 // //
  • basically if u feel like leaving just leave...! :)

    AbsoluteMiti Love // 2013-07-04 15:07:29 // //
  • you look so young Doc Deepak.. :)

    Judy Trinidad // 2013-07-04 15:00:20 // //
  • Thanks a million Deepak!!!

    Trish McGettrick // 2013-07-04 14:59:41 // //
  • Thank you

    Eddie Ware Jr // 2013-07-04 14:58:57 // //
  • si todos aprendieramos a ir para adentro y tan solo hacer silencio para que nuestro Ser pueda expresarse, el mundo estaria mejor!!!

    Majo Dejesus // 2013-07-04 14:58:10 // //
  • Another copy paste....... simple ... follow your heart

    Robbie Seals // 2013-07-04 14:50:44 // //
  • I know but may be I am scared and lonely ! !

    Dumisani Mzilikazi Khumalo // 2013-07-04 14:50:34 // //
  • Tune in to your guiding spirit. Be honest about what is the decision that serves both of you. What is best for your higher good and your partners higher good. When leaving is a choice for love for both , it is right.

    Annette Cargioli // 2013-07-04 14:49:41 // //
  • I have a sign on my wall in tje living room "fiollow your heart" but I need to do that more often. Thank you deepak. I needed to hear that

    Monika Montgomery // 2013-07-04 14:48:22 // //
  • So true.

    Aamar Rashid // 2013-07-04 14:45:45 // //
  • "...But learning to follow your heart is an invaluable skill to develop for all your life’s decisions...."

    Growing Health and Happiness // 2013-07-04 14:44:16 // //
  • Bf Rosamelia // 2013-07-04 14:41:50 // //
  • Tack :-)

    Jonas Björkholm // 2013-07-04 14:41:06 // //
  • Love you back, dear....Deepak!

    Jay Clark // 2013-07-04 14:40:26 // //
  • In my humble opinion, it’s never healthy to end a relationship and move on. I feel it’s healthier to transition to a less significant relationship, but communication is the key to making it a successful and healthy transition, that is in most cases and apart from the obvious.

    Tom Sotelo // 2013-07-04 14:40:22 // //
  • Loved the response

    Poonam Dronamraju // 2013-07-04 14:39:39 // //
  • So is conscience governed by the brain or the heart?

    Ishan Ghosh // 2013-07-04 14:37:42 // //
  • So true...To believe in what you feel, in your intuition and in doing so, open the doors to a wonderful and authentic way of being life!!! And the intuition has its phases that depends on your spiritual maturity...

    Lita Freire Arantes // 2013-07-04 14:31:37 // //
  • Omg! Right after I posted my comment on here, I started my car and magic 100fm was playing from the start "listen to your heart" by roxette! Next was "new day" Celine Dion... now's it's "now just give me reason just a little bits enough.. we 're not broken just bent and we can learn to love again..." nice... synchronistic psychic channelling!? Awesome.

    Alice Tracey // 2013-07-04 14:27:42 // //
  • I'm Following my HEART!

    Wyn Plocher // 2013-07-04 14:26:02 // //
  • Thank's

    Piyumi Kanishka // 2013-07-04 14:25:49 // //
  • XO

    Elaine Connor // 2013-07-04 14:24:20 // //
  • Thanks Deepak!!! So clear!!!So simple!!!

    Alejandra Tissembaum // 2013-07-04 14:24:00 // //
  • Namaste! Great insights!!!!!

    Kine J Ndiaye // 2013-07-04 14:18:19 // //
  • Don't follow your Heart, follow your Brain!!! Lol

    Vyktor Menendez // 2013-07-04 14:17:49 // //
  • A world of quitters. When are people going to learn to really love, really transform and be transformed?

    Yi Wang // 2013-07-04 14:12:11 // //
  • Love your answer, Deepak.

    Marilyn Regentin // 2013-07-04 14:12:00 // //
  • Deepak, yes, that is exactly what worked best for me. The mind was little help. The heart and body knew.

    Donna Van Keuren // 2013-07-04 14:10:52 // //
  • Follow your heart? We know something today that perhaps was not well verbalized previously; the heart is a muscle, it doesn't guide our instincts. That's our brain. However, I'll give you that. Follow your brain just doesn't have the cache as the emotional pulling of one's "heart?"

    Ron Gauvin // 2013-07-04 13:58:38 // //
  • Once I stopped trying to logic my way to a decision, I did what felt right and I am at peace. It took me five months to get to that point.

    Darla K. Walker // 2013-07-04 13:57:58 // //
  • You've gotta take a look at what you are getting from the relationship... what pulls you to it? Service? Distraction? A story? What choice will serve the freedom and higher good of all. Children are resilient to positive change.. its how its handled. Deepak is right that we just know in our heart when time is up. I think breaking free might come easier when we trust that we got the lessons and remain in a space of love while we make adjustments.

    Alice Tracey // 2013-07-04 13:57:23 // //
  • When the tears drown the smiles When you spend more time worrying about it than enjoying it

    Shona Lucana // 2013-07-04 13:54:16 // //
  • A relationship ends at the end of its natural cycle. when all karmic debts between u and ur partner are equalized and you have broken free from the lifetime bindings. that might be in this life or in another life. it is not something that we can determine. when we determine its end its an ego generated decision. if we can accurately figure out what our heart says we would all be like Jesus. if only it was that easy all the problems of the world would be solved over night.

    Ra Guna // 2013-07-04 13:54:10 // //
  • Sometimes you do not know because so many thoughts are flying around, thoughts of what can happen or what has happened. But if you stop, and touch the ground in awakness, an awakeness of the reality you are in and not wish to be in, then you will have your clear path.

    Carlos Morlock // 2013-07-04 13:51:07 // //
  • Very true! Thank you.

    Michelle Christison // 2013-07-04 13:47:12 // //
  • Nice T shirt!!!

    Clave Cosmica // 2013-07-04 13:44:57 // //
  • Luz Ponce Pasache

    Miguel Angel Rios Perez // 2013-07-04 13:44:22 // //
  • Wonderful answer!

    Charles Mutembo // 2013-07-04 13:41:27 // //
  • I agree follow your heart,but sometimes it is easier said than done when there are children involved..

    Louise Markvart // 2013-07-04 13:39:19 // //
  • Marca Peru...http://www.maximolauratapestryart.com/

    Susanne Alexander // 2013-07-04 13:34:33 // //
  • kiss

    Daniela Martins // 2013-07-04 13:34:31 // //
  • my name is daniela!!!! liss

    Daniela Martins // 2013-07-04 13:34:23 // //
  • Love this, read it when I needed guidance or another voice in my head LOL thank you D

    Joseph Vargas // 2013-07-04 13:33:34 // //
  • :)

    Semeniuc Erica // 2013-07-04 13:32:36 // //
  • Great advice and nice t-shirt :-)

    Karla Vargas // 2013-07-04 13:27:03 // //
  • When she starts shooting at you.

    Michael Dentzer // 2013-07-04 13:26:26 // //
  • Thanks really needed that

    Zee Nicole Loebenberg // 2013-07-04 13:25:36 // //
  • Heart knows. But sometimes--it still leads us wrong. Just have to willing to silence it & try again. Better question is when to stay. When to not give up. When to fight for love.

    Beth Healy // 2013-07-04 13:24:11 // //
  • when? when you know from your toes to the tip of your hair that there is no force on heaven or earth that could ever make you want to have sex with that person again. ever.

    Sharon Slayton // 2013-07-04 13:24:09 // //
  • The heart and its wisdom!

    Veronica Cole // 2013-07-04 13:23:45 // //
  • Perfectly said!

    Lillian Rajkovich // 2013-07-04 13:23:03 // //
  • wow , this 's exactly what i wanted to hear :)

    Hafsa Habib // 2013-07-04 13:22:50 // //
  • When he drops you like a hot potato for a woman 20 yrs his junior, or when you finally wake up from your stupor

    Bettyanne Bush // 2013-07-04 13:22:32 // //
  • My heart is wounded and I'm sure it's because I've neglected to listen for many years.....

    Maria Yanis // 2013-07-04 13:21:57 // //
  • Thanks for reminding and reaffirming this for me.

    Catherine Marie Berger // 2013-07-04 13:20:11 // //
  • When she is sleeping with her boss at work That was kind of a red flag.

    Josh Taylor // 2013-07-04 13:19:31 // //
  • Yes, this is powerful.. I have the same thoughts on this as Deepak and Born TO Inspire U, has said.. Comforting to know it is a wise decision...thank you for sharing..

    Sandy Depew // 2013-07-04 13:18:38 // //
  • Thanks, I will continue my intuition!!

    Tere Andrade // 2013-07-04 13:18:32 // //
  • Thx!! Nice Peruvian T-shirt ;)

    Sarila Katari // 2013-07-04 13:18:20 // //
  • thank You

    Sandra Weber // 2013-07-04 13:16:51 // //
  • Ahhhh listening to the heart! What a concept! Love it!

    Anita Jagt // 2013-07-04 13:16:47 // //
  • Thank you <3 following my hearts intuition. <3

    Sonia Venegas // 2013-07-04 13:16:44 // //
  • Thanks for your trinidad visit...get it yet.

    Lisa Chan // 2013-07-04 13:16:42 // //
  • Powerful

    Ann DiMauro Barrante // 2013-07-04 13:15:22 // //
  • When the idea becomes theme

    Eddie Barker // 2013-07-04 13:15:11 // //
  • Thank u for sharing.

    Judith Maxima Ras // 2013-07-04 13:15:05 // //
  • Thanks from your fan down here in Santiago, Chile!!!

    Nathalie Iriarte Souza // 2013-07-04 13:14:44 // //
  • ❤ Follow your heart! That is so beautiful!! Very nice T-Shirt Deepak!!!

    Suzana Dragañac // 2013-07-04 13:14:32 // //
  • Relationship has ended..but here is an example for you.....if you want to tell the government of a country something with no backlash or liability because of laws in that country....maybe you hava a ongoing conversation with the government of a developing nation with no laws to judge you....not everything you see is the reality of what it is..

    Lisa Chan // 2013-07-04 13:13:48 // //
  • I so agree with this advice. Sincerity is the heart's voice. And so what if it is a mistake? If your heart tells you your peace is not with one person, I think it's worth hearing it. I also think once you're made your decision, your heart can also tell you if you are right. <3

    Marie Lauzon // 2013-07-04 13:12:40 // //
  • Exactly

    Collette Vous // 2013-07-04 13:11:58 // //
  • thanks

    Mária Tóth // 2013-07-04 13:11:53 // //
  • :o peru!!! yeah!

    Roberto Bellido Herrera // 2013-07-04 13:11:14 // //
  • For Adultry I dont have to think,I know I wont stand for it..

    Emmanuel Sibanyoni // 2013-07-04 13:11:14 // //
  • I need you!

    Kiran Bashir // 2013-07-04 13:10:39 // //
  • Perú shirt!!! ❤

    Paola Jade // 2013-07-04 13:10:11 // //
  • We are conscious human being seeded with deep feelings where our life's most purposeful desires are emotion, physical and spiritual. so while in the miraculous progressive journey of soul mate relationships ,sometime we get hurt unexpectedly either emotionally, physically or spiritually. The quality of relationships are measured in terms of emotional, physical and spiritual scale and the outcome of this measurement determine your quality of decision you need to take as per the case. We are sometime compels to live a life being alone cz of emotional,physical or spiritual abuses and other forms of attacks in our life. We must be wise enough and take life shifting decision in such critical cases where we find ourself living life in hell with toxic and painful relationships.

    Born TO Inspire U // 2013-07-04 13:10:01 // //
  • Thumps up for the t- shirt :-)

    Efrosini Polizogopulos // 2013-07-04 13:09:55 // //
  • Thank you Deepak

    Mary Gimisis Geroudis // 2013-07-04 13:09:20 // //
  • Thank you for sharing :)

    Linda LaMarca // 2013-07-04 13:08:57 // //
  • Deepak, we have that same shirt!

    Kathya Suchan // 2013-07-04 13:08:55 // //
  • but sometimes there is an confusion that is it really i want or not ?..that is very diffucult to handel ..and somtimes we want both which is may be illegal or rather our boundaries do not appreciate with it ..sir i listend ur video on "7 laws of sucess"....and it is very difficult to keep in slience rather than meditation..because always whenever i was in slience i spoke up with me itself....thank you

    Pali Mallick // 2013-07-04 13:08:22 // //
  • Great advice!

    Ivette Ramirez // 2013-07-04 13:08:04 // //
  • thanks master deepak

    Sedano Martinez Josué // 2013-07-04 13:07:54 // //
  • Love you Deepak!

    Sharon Smith Robinson // 2013-07-04 13:07:13 // //
  • So true......I totally agree with this answer.

    Paula Wright // 2013-07-04 13:06:49 // //
  • I like your T shirt! :)

    Gio Paz // 2013-07-04 13:06:33 // //
  • phenomenal!!

    César Sánchez Paz // 2013-07-04 13:06:31 // //
  • brilliant!...follow your heart!

    Mandira Sinha // 2013-07-04 13:06:30 // //
  • HELLO DEEPAK!!!!

    Graciela Kries // 2013-07-04 13:06:23 // //
  • Deepak Chopra is the Jewish David Harrison Levi,,,,,,,,,!!!,,,,,,,Happy 4th,,,,,,,!!!

    Alan Ende // 2013-07-04 13:06:11 // //
  • Awesome advice! :)

    Tracy Micks // 2013-07-04 13:06:10 // //
  • I'm in this situation and this is very fitting, and I agree I can't do the right/wrong decision. It's not about being right or wrong. I look at what has been taken from (my health, my confidence, etc.) and I know it my gut that it's time to move on and get out of a bad situation :) Every story has 2 sides and I find it sad that people can't be understanding of both sides, but it is what it is :)

    Sher Welch-Lambert // 2013-07-04 13:05:52 // //
  • Being heart/mind congruent...still learning to listen! Thank you!

    Risa Cormier // 2013-07-04 13:05:37 // //
  • This is the best answer to this question that I have ever heard, thank you Deepak for your wisdom.

    Bev Henrich // 2013-07-04 13:05:35 // //
  • Simple intuicion!!!!

    Adryana Flores // 2013-07-04 13:05:20 // //
  • Decisiones con corazón es lo importante, gracias Deepak, Bye

    David Suarez // 2013-07-04 13:05:15 // //
  • Thank you sooo much!!! I needed this!!!

    Maggie Alvarez // 2013-07-04 13:04:21 // //
  • A: you're miserable a THIRD of the TIME

    Alicia Dane // 2013-07-04 13:04:08 // //
  • QUIT ?

    Julio C Mejia // 2013-07-04 13:03:35 // //
  • en español por favor gracias

    Maika Shango Egea Robles // 2013-07-04 13:03:34 // //
  • A: you're miserable HALF the TIME

    Alicia Dane // 2013-07-04 13:03:28 // //
  • True that

    Tamanna C // 2013-07-04 13:03:28 // //
  • A: you're miserable all the TIME

    Alicia Dane // 2013-07-04 13:02:37 // //
  • The Path to Love is one of the most all encompassing works I've seen/heard. Thank you Deepak.

    Saundra Drake // 2013-07-04 13:02:22 // //
  • Trust your intuition!

    Itana Alders // 2013-07-04 13:01:30 // //