Unconscious Connections.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Dear Deepak,
Firstly, thank You for taking the time out to answer any questions. I enjoy reading your thoughts and about the experiences of others here. Now for my question, is there some way in which we can involuntarily tap into the thoughts or feelings of those around us? I have recently entered into a rather complicated relationship with an ex-girlfriend. While we maintain what we have is a friendship, we do all the things that loving couples do, and our relationship is stronger and more loving than it has been since we first met and dated years ago. I love her dearly but realize I cannot change the way she feels about me, and she says that she will never be able to give me the relationship I want. Ironically, she is doing just that in this non-relationship. Lately I’ve been having dreams when I stay over at her place that involve her shouting, talking or speaking rapidly at me about her confused feelings. I often wake up in the midst of these to my own rapid thoughts but find I am unable to move, as if my body is paralyzed or asleep while my mind is wide awake. I recognize that these thoughts may be because of my own confusion, but is there a chance I am somehow tapping into her thoughts when we sleep as well? The thought processes seem so unlike mine, so alien to me, that I struggle to believe they’re entirely my own.
Thank you for your help.
Response:
It’s hard to say with any certainty what is causing the images and feelings during dreams, but it is possible that your close emotional connection to your ex-girlfriend could factor in to the content of your own tumultuous feelings during dreams. However, I doubt if that information can be of much use to you. Given that the confusing feelings happened to you, it makes more sense to take full responsibility for them and work on resolving them internally on your own terms.
Love,
Deepak
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Unconscious Connections.
When your mind and heart are truly open abundance will flow to you effortlessly and easily.
Question:
Dear Deepak, Firstly, thank You for taking the time out to answer any questions. I enjoy reading your thoughts and about the experiences of others here. Now for my question, is there some way in which we can involuntarily tap into the thoughts or feelings of those around us? I have recently entered into a rather complicated relationship with an ex-girlfriend. While we maintain what we have is a friendship, we do all the things that loving couples do, and our relationship is stronger and more loving than it has been since we first met and dated years ago. I love her dearly but realize I cannot change the way she feels about me, and she says that she will never be able to give me the relationship I want. Ironically, she is doing just that in this non-relationship. Lately I've been having dreams when I stay over at her place that involve her shouting, talking or speaking rapidly at me about her confused feelings. I often wake up in the midst of these to my own rapid thoughts but find I am unable to move, as if my body is paralyzed or asleep while my mind is wide awake. I recognize that these thoughts may be because of my own confusion, but is there a chance I am somehow tapping into her thoughts when we sleep as well? The thought processes seem so unlike mine, so alien to me, that I struggle to believe they're entirely my own. Thank you for your help!
Response:
It’s hard to say with any certainty what is causing the images and feelings during dreams, but it is possible that your close emotional connection to your ex-girlfriend could factor in to the content of your own tumultuous feelings during dreams. However, I doubt if that information can be of much use to you. Given that the confusing feelings happened to you, it makes more sense to take full responsibility for them and work on resolving them internally on your own terms.
Love,
Deepak
Dear Deepak, Is there any chances to speak to somebody - may be to our most lovable ones about what we feel for them and about us and what we want from them and how much we care for them and how we miss them without direct personal meet and talking. And how to do them when we don t have knowledge on meditation so far? APpreciate your positive reply much and thanks in advance.
Are you getting the fulfillment of the relationship that you all want because you both no longer feel trapped by been in this relationship ? The images and feelings during your dreams could be the fac that you are experiencing the desired fulfillement but fear losing her if the relationship changes from friendship to something else ?
This `non-relationship` may be getting in the way of the real thing. Moving on can hurt, but then it gets better.